the art of doing nothing

i truly haven't developed the skill of doing nothing, from a young age of 2 i refused to take afternoon naps (some say thats why i am petite...ahem..petite not short).... even during those long holidays we got when i was in school, i was either reading, doing cross stitch, jigsaw puzzles, ..etc... so in my attempt to "do nothing" i actually clicked "create a new post" (in my blog) like 3 times and didn't end up writing anything....i just think doing nothing is a plain waste of time...e.g. even going to toilet to do "business" i feel is quite a waste of time..but lets not go there...i got stares the last time i spoke about 10 things u can do when u are in the washroom...hehe truly though, i understand that at times doing nothing is good, perhaps its better phrased at relaxing and not literally staring into blank space...though when low on the happy scale..the long silence and solitude can be killing...otherwise like someone said...its good time for reflection and gaining new perspective.... i think guys are better at this...so the author of "men are from mars, and women are from venus" says...that men like to retreat to their caves for thought, while women like to talk it out with someone...(even if that person isn't really listening-typically the guy in that case)

nonetheless, my long silence in blog-dom has also been due to traveling and prep for drama...last minute christmas shopping...and i truly dunno what else, feels like my hols haven't quite started...oh yea and prom...

and the reason why i haven't posted anything on those is....i am still waiting for my sis to send me pics from cameron, then v to send pics from prom..etc etc...here's one pic that some random stranger sent me....and of course now...his not a random stranger anymore?


oh well..thats all for now...wonder whether its the weather or wat...truly not in the mood for blogging